Gratitude; is also being happy for other people

Someone just shared to me a very DISAPPOINTING post. To think I actually respect these people and even looks up to them as supposedly "good examples" 😞

I hope you people don't get your tongues burned every-time you partake of the sacrament. How sad to know that there are people who mask their "CRAB MENTALITY" in the guise of "CRITICISM & MERE OBSERVATION." If that's true then why do they need to advertise it in social media? Why can't they just keep their unsolicited opinions to themselves? Why can't they be happy for people who are trying to find comfort from the kindness of other people. Do we not have the same right as everyone else? Are you the only people that Jesus Christ died for and atoned for your sins? In the words of Abinadi "have ye not read the scriptures?" and if so "ye did not understand them." 

The essence of "LOVING ONE ANOTHER" is actually "BEING HAPPY WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ARE HAPPY." That includes  not gossiping others when you yourself is not perfect. I hope Heavenly Father will continue to bless your family with prosperity and comfort. Pray hard that the wheels of life don't turn around, that someday you will be placed in the same situation that we poor and destitute people are in. I pray that God will be merciful to you and not curse you and your love ones just to make you HUMBLE. Be careful what you say and when you try to excuse yourself and start justifying your actions. 

Be wise and ask yourself "WOULD JESUS CHRIST ACT AND DO THE SAME THINGS I DO?"

To those who are genuinely honest and kind, people like me are always 

grateful and praying for your happiness. Because you don't judge people like us but have an understanding heart to which the motto of the relief society holds true "CHARITY NEVER FAILETH."

We need more members in the church like you (^^,)

Dear Mother

Mom, I'm sorry for everything I do that makes it more difficult for you. I grew up in an environment that has shape me to be tough, strong

and unyielding just like you. But know that I love you so much! I'm sorry for all the fights and selfish attitude I have. I know have hurt your feelings many times...

For that I am truly sorry and sorrowful. Despite all of this mom, I still and always will love you.

I know that all our trials will only be for a moment. I know that God is mindful of our family and mindful of your tearful pleadings and prayers. I always pray in my heart that one day we will all wake up one morning and everything will be alright. But I know Mom, that God allows trials to refine us but not to defeat us.

I love you and our family so much. I will not give up on us. I know someday we will all be laughing again and find that joy that you have so earnestly tried to envelope us.

I recognize all your sacrifices for me and for all of us your children. We will forever be grateful to you. I love you Mom! We Love you! You are not alone and will never be alone.

ME, Shadel, Jomjom and our other family members will always be here for you.

Re Blooged Artidote; “COMPLIMENTS THAT AREN’T ABOUT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE "

“COMPLIMENTS THAT AREN’T ABOUT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
1) You’re empowering.
2) I like your voice.
3) You’re strong.
4) I think your ideas/beliefs matter.
5) I’m so happy you exist.
6) More people should be listening to what you have to say.
7) You’re a very warm hearted person.
8) It’s nice seeing such kindness.
9) You’re very down to earth.
10) You have a beautiful soul.
11) You inspire me to become a better person.
12) Our conversations bring me a lot of joy.
13) It’s good to see someone care so much.
14) You’re so understanding.
15) You matter a lot to me.
16) You’re important even if you don’t think so.
17) You’re intelligent.
18) Your passion is contagious.19) Your confidence is refreshing.
20) You restore my faith in humanity.
21) You’re great at being creative.
22) You’re so talented at ____.
23) I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people.
24) You have great taste in ___.
25) I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you.
26) I wish more people were like you.
27) You’re so good at loving people.”
-hereislight
(feel free to add to the list)
painting by Alex aka Strain

10 behaviors of genuine people (REPOST)

 I saw one of my FB friends posted about the 10 behaviors of genuine people, i felt all of the sudden to repost it this time in my blog. For the record.

In case you're wondering, genuine means actual, real, sincere, honest. Genuine people are more or less the same on the inside as their behavior is on the outside. Unfortunately, it's a tough quality to discern. The problem is that all human interactions are relative. They’re all a function of how we perceive each other through our own subjective lenses.

1. They don't seek attention
2. They can tell if others are full of it. (genuine are not naive)
3. They are not concerned of being like. (confident and authentic people are simply themselves)
4. They do what they say, and say what they mean. (They don’t tend to overreach or exaggerate. They meet their commitments. )
5. They don't need a lot of stuff. (You find happiness in the simple things.)
6. Not easily offended
7. They're consistent.
Genuine people see themselves as others would if they were objective observers.

I am humbled by your unselfish gesture of love.

I have always been fascinated by angels everytime I read the scriptures. Even as a kid I always imagine having a guardian angel that I can call to in times of need. But as I grew up and as reality set's in, I often wonder how it would feel like actually seeing an angel. Will the experience be Like Nephi's brothers? or Alma the Younger? I alway's did hope to meet one.

I have not since prayed more fervently and pleaded more tearfully for God to send down angels to listen and care. Perhaps I really never outgrew the thought of guardian angel's protecting and helping me. But indeed Heavenly Father is not deaf and does hear my prayers.

You are an angel to me, specially when i needed a friend most. I am humbled by your unselfish gesture of love. Your action speaks well of you. Indeed you need not boast any of your wonderful virtues. That is why I have learned to admire you the most. You are truly beautiful inside and out.

No matter how much I say it, no words can fully express the gratitude that I feel. Thank You so Much!

May you be blessed and find happiness that you deserve because of your genuine charity. May your family and those who truly love you see you for who you are. A beautiful daughter of deity. A wonderful friend. A good example that is worth noticing and acknowledging.

I pray my words will reach you.

To my future husband,

Hello, wherever you are. I just thought about you. This may be weird but I just wanted to talk to you.To say these things to you. Even if you are not listening right now. You'll listen to this letter of mine, someday. Are you doing fine? I hope you are.

Hello, you. Hello my future nobleman. I'm not a young woman in distress or anything.. I know it doesn't sound right for me to say.I'm just saying, I'm waiting, waiting on my Heavenly Father..to point you to me..like a star..I'm enjoying my life right now..I hope you are too.. I know I'm not talking to some untrue of my imagination..I know you are real..somewhere..out there..and at the right time we'll meet..in Heavenly Father's own perfect time. I pray that you are in good company..and I reach out and declare blessings upon you..wherever you are.
Are you smiling? Happy?

If you are I'm glad..but..if you're sad..I pray my words will reach you.. not my voice.. but Heavenly Father's voice..telling you..assuring you..that you are not alone and that He loves you soo much. He is with you..everyday.. I hope you feel that. I know you will. I pray that you will be the priesthood holder that Heavenly Father wanted..prepared you to be for me.. Pressure? haha..don't be.. don't worry..I am doing my best too..this may take a while..but while I wait..I'll save my bosom for you..while I wait..I'll love myself..while I wait I'll devote my time and love to the Father who gave love and is Love.I'll spend more time with him. While you're not my date for now.. He'll be mine ;)

I remember it was 2010 (High school year) when I first write my promise message in my journal a small message but meant soo much to me the start of my unfolding promise to God that I'll wait for His best, and that is you. Until now. I am keeping my promise.

You are loved. You are special..do you know that? I can't wait for the day..for the time that I'll be one saying it to you.. I pray for your safety everyday..and that while I'm taking baby steps with Him..somewhere..you too..are doing the same. I'm sorry if at times I get impatient. For entertaining curious thoughts like " how does it feel to have a boyfriend?" stuff like that..  but I want to let you know that I am secure.. secure of my father's love..of His love. If I may have crushes..like now..for instance.. know that they are just crushes..and that they'll stay as that.

If someone else may get to read this letter..he/she'd probably think I'm crazy.. like, "what is she talking about? desperate much?" words like that.. but who cares? I don't care.. I'm not writing this letter to him/her or them.. I'm writing this to you..and with every word I am sincere of all the things I say.. They may call me delusional..but I know my own identity and that is in Christ. He has promised me that he has set you apart for me..and I stand on it.

I'm not a perfect Christian (LDS). I slip and fall at times..but I believe that Heavenly Father will be with me every step that I take..and that He will be one who will draw us close. When I was 16..hmm..no..was it 17? I forgot..sorry..you'd have to bear with my forgetfulness in the future XD moving on..  I wrote a letter same as this to you..but..it was more.. unbelievable.. (for my english subject project) I'll be posting it later on..as soon as I find it.. you'll see the difference..don't laugh..okay.

I pray that you will love me as I am..that you will see past my imperfections and my weaknesses.. my insecurities.. and I pray too.. that Heavenly Father will instill my heart to love you..but I'm sure it'll just come naturally.. not that I'm having doubts..I'm just making sure that my heart will beat for the right person..for you.. and I know that He will help me finding my way to you..not for now..but someday. I'll be able to pinpoint you..haha..

I don't expect you to be Mr. Perfect or.. Mr. Right.. I just want you to be "The Man.." The man that Heavenly Father has set apart for me. A man after own Heavenly Father's heart. I pray to keep you away from bad influences  I don't drink..or smoke.. I don't drink tea or coffee just chocolate.. not being strict or anything.. May my declarations reach you..I know they will..

I know that you are handsome..not being picky or anything..but..yeah..anyways.. I know that you’ll be caring and sweet..that you’ll comfort me when I’m sad..

But.. if you’re not one.. I’ll still accept you.. just the way you are.. I know you’ll surprise me in your own way.. most of all.. I know you’ll love me for me.. I know that you will wait for me.. I just know it.. I thank Heavenly Father that He is a part of my life and forever will be.. Imagine.. if He wasn’t..

Hey, guard your heart okay? Because I’m guarding my heart for you.. true love waits.. and so I’ll wait for the day..when we’ll finally meet..when we’ll finally get to say our first “hello.” To this day, I’m still wearing  my promise..I’ll keep it.. I know you will too.. I know I am being modest.. but..don’t you ever think you can’t hug me or hold my hand..

I like hugs.. especially if they’re from you.. call it corny but yeah..
Yes. I admit I am in my day dreaming state XD

Let’s enjoy life for now ok? I don’t want things to rush.. I won’t forget you.. We both know that Heavenly Father has a plan for us.. for us to meet, for sure at the Temple of the Lord.. and to have a bright and better future.. Let’s live our “Happily Ever Before.”

P.S.

If the time comes..please forgive the butterflies in my stomach and for getting tongue-tied. and..as for my stories.. well..if you’d ever read it which is a one in a million.. they are just like my journal.. and if you’re already part of a chapter..or maybe you just passed by..
well..
what a COING-KI-DINK!
Still..don’t worry.. I’ll still save a whole lot of chapters for you..

Years from now.. I'll be reading this letter again.. I'll be amazed of the journey that has undertaken..Be amazed of His goodness..I'll smile and for sure laugh.. at the 19 year old me.. and years from now.. I'll be reading this letter to you.. Not just to show you that I'm such a dreamer but to prove to you.. my sincerity and how blessed I am to have met you.. finally..

so like me, this letter will wait.. until I can finally give it to you..

until then..
Meet you there Someday,